The biggest misconception of the hijab is that Muslim women are
forced to wear one either by their fathers or husbands. In fact, women choose
to wear the hijab themselves.
“I wear the hijab because it is a command from Allah, not because a
man makes me,” 20-year-old Muslim-American Heba Hammami said.
“I cannot force her to wear it, even if I wanted her to, because it’s
her choice to either follow the Qur’an or not to,” Heba Hammami’s father, Saba
Hammami, said.
Only a portion of the female Muslim population in America wears the
hijab or other Islamic dress, and not all religiously observant women feel that
it is required, according to Yvonne Yazbeck Haddad.
Dressing modestly when out in public is very important to Muslim
women, and wearing the hijab actually makes them feel more secure and
empowered, rather than subjugated.
“Wearing the hijab instantly gives a woman more respect, and is a
way of saying ‘you have no right to stare at me inappropriately,’” converted
Muslim-American Teresa Mallak said.
Muslim women feel that the relationship between a man and wife is
extremely sacred, and veiling oneself is a way to preserve the intimacy in
their relationship. Showing their beauty to only their husband creates a strong
bond and love between the couple.
“It creates something very special between a woman and her husband,
because you’re only letting that one man see the most beautiful parts of
yourself when you dress modestly around others,” Heba Hammami said.
Many non-Muslims believe that Islam is a sexist religion, where
women are treated on a less-than-human level. This is where wrong ideas about
the hijab are formulated. Women and men are seen as equal, and it is only a
very small minority that practice Islam on an extreme basis that give Muslims a
bad wrap. These individuals take parts of the Qur’an and twist them into very
literal translations of the Word.
“Men that treat their wives on an unequal level are not true
Muslims,” Heba Hammami said.
The hijab is not a way of bringing women down, it is a way of women
holding themselves to a higher standard and commanding esteem from men. For
more information on the hijab and status of women in Islam, visit
www.whyislam.org.
